FRIENDSHIP

By seeing my students everyday, makes me learn so many things everyday, and also remind me of something in my past..hehehe...It's good to know that my experience with my past can help them to deal with their problems now...Teenage life indeed seems to be the age of problems... :)

Do you remember your own experience?

One thing that I remember is about friendship. I used to have rivals in my life, but they also my closest friends...my best friends (Cha, ingat ga kita sering bersaing bareng ama Galih juga waktu SMA dulu?Aku kangen masa2 itu :p) Yo, aku kangen masa2 kuliah kita :)

And there's also another best friends of mine that live so close to my house, and makes our parents seems to always comparing us. I found out it years after that time, that actually her mother sometime compare me to her, just like what my mother did(but probably my mom compare me to you more often..hehehe...My mom always like you..). But if she was being compared to me by her mom for academic result than I used to being compared to her by my mom because of her beauty and fashion things. And during my teenage life, that makes me lose confidence sometimes...specially when it comes to appereance. She indeed very pretty (you are sist..hehehe...)

The funny thing is everytime I have a crush to a guy, it turns out that boy will falling in love for her..So, whenever I had a crush to someone, then I will introduce him to her.
Why?
Because if that boy turns out to have a crush for her, then I already prepare for it and I already prepare from being heart broken...hehehe...so it's like a test that I made to prevent my heart to be broken.
Tapi sekarang dah insyaf kok sist...ga lagi...suer..khan dah ada Mas Ayok (actually my husband is one of the 3 person that passed "this test"..wkakak..And that's what makes me want to date with him years ago..wkakak..)

Wah kok jadi curhat..anyway...For me Friendship is something that important in my life..

Through the process it will not be always smooth..
Sometimes there's arguing...
Sometimes there's competition...
And at the rarer time there will be huge fight....
But experiences had teach me that friends also will be the one who gives you ears to listen to....
a shoulder to cry on...
A mouth to defend for you...
And the most important thing...to keep you stand on your feet, when you feel lose grip.

So, for my students... You still have a long journey a head...Fill it with a lot of friends, because the are treasure in life. I've share another story of my past during the pastoral care session, right? :)