FRIENDSHIP

By seeing my students everyday, makes me learn so many things everyday, and also remind me of something in my past..hehehe...It's good to know that my experience with my past can help them to deal with their problems now...Teenage life indeed seems to be the age of problems... :)

Do you remember your own experience?

One thing that I remember is about friendship. I used to have rivals in my life, but they also my closest friends...my best friends (Cha, ingat ga kita sering bersaing bareng ama Galih juga waktu SMA dulu?Aku kangen masa2 itu :p) Yo, aku kangen masa2 kuliah kita :)

And there's also another best friends of mine that live so close to my house, and makes our parents seems to always comparing us. I found out it years after that time, that actually her mother sometime compare me to her, just like what my mother did(but probably my mom compare me to you more often..hehehe...My mom always like you..). But if she was being compared to me by her mom for academic result than I used to being compared to her by my mom because of her beauty and fashion things. And during my teenage life, that makes me lose confidence sometimes...specially when it comes to appereance. She indeed very pretty (you are sist..hehehe...)

The funny thing is everytime I have a crush to a guy, it turns out that boy will falling in love for her..So, whenever I had a crush to someone, then I will introduce him to her.
Why?
Because if that boy turns out to have a crush for her, then I already prepare for it and I already prepare from being heart broken...hehehe...so it's like a test that I made to prevent my heart to be broken.
Tapi sekarang dah insyaf kok sist...ga lagi...suer..khan dah ada Mas Ayok (actually my husband is one of the 3 person that passed "this test"..wkakak..And that's what makes me want to date with him years ago..wkakak..)

Wah kok jadi curhat..anyway...For me Friendship is something that important in my life..

Through the process it will not be always smooth..
Sometimes there's arguing...
Sometimes there's competition...
And at the rarer time there will be huge fight....
But experiences had teach me that friends also will be the one who gives you ears to listen to....
a shoulder to cry on...
A mouth to defend for you...
And the most important thing...to keep you stand on your feet, when you feel lose grip.

So, for my students... You still have a long journey a head...Fill it with a lot of friends, because the are treasure in life. I've share another story of my past during the pastoral care session, right? :)

Airplane Buddy

Have you ever make a friend on a plane?

Yesterday, I was at Sriwijaya Airline from Surabaya to Jakarta. And the person next to me introduce himself. I was quite surprise because usually whenver I'm on a plane, people usually busy with their own business and seems don't want to know about their next seat person. 

I also like to make new friends...But sometime I found it hard to start conversation first with a stranger.. 

Have you experience things like this...??

But from yesterday experience, I realize that actually people like to be tag, but it just probably difficult for them to tag it first :)

Makasi ya Mas Adjie, udah nyapa duluan....Dan untungnya pembicaraan bisa nyambung ya..(ato disambung-sambungin ya..hahaha...). Jadi perjalanan Surabaya-Jakarta ga kerasa. Semoga pertemanan kita bisa lanjut terus. Salam untuk nyonya dan si kecil. Lain kali kalo ada tugas di Surabaya, just ring me...Bakalan kutunjukkin wisata kuliner di Surabaya. Ato mo ke Malang sekalian juga boleh.. :) Ntar kukenalin juga ama Mas Ayok (my hubby ) and Alex (anakku..)

En kalo butuh konsultan jangan lupa buka aja

www.phitagoras.co.id atau www.phitagoras.com ya mas...hehehe promosi :p

Friends are gifts for life...

Have you ever acknowledge someone that you see everyday?
Have you ever think what you can do without them..?
A friend that separate by distance...is still a friend?
Today I feel very grateful to have bunch of best friends....
Like I posted yesterday, I felt that it was my blue Christmas without my family
But as I see it now...
I think God wants me to realize that I have great friends that care for me...


On Christmas eve, my business partner, Mas Indra willingly to drop me to church with located miles away and almost in the middle of the night although I know that he is tired physically and emotionally because of the problems...Thank you mas...I don't how can I go to church at night without you.. :)

Secondly, My old best friend Arwita, she and I already become friend since our childhood coz we are neighbors and for several years we went to the same school... After joining the Devotion of Christmas eve, we went to Wita's places and talked for things..and things..a lot of things...we chat until almost 2.30 in the morning.. Wit, sometime I really miss our conversation, our chat...Seems like old days, right Wit? Like when we still teenagers but now we discuss things/problems that adults have :) not kids anymore... Thank you for your cook Wit.. Yummy...Next time make me another one, please...hehehe...

And then Troy, my best friend at ITS. He came to meet me and Wita at Pondok Indah Mall. And then Wita with her friends and Troy drove me home. Despite of the full schedule that he had, he still spare his time to see an old friends..And I really appreciate for that Troy. Thank you. Specially thank you to care about me so much, I mean... in this few days I get worst cough and influenza (coz I slept only 3-4 hours fr\or this past 4 days and then probably the stress from the problem that I had) Anyway...
After saw my condition, he suggest me to took massage or relaxation and then he accompany me there even wait longer because I had more treatment...and He treat me...Thanks Troy :)
You really are a gentlement..(hehehe..kalo baca ini jangan Ge Er :p ) The woman that become your spouse will be very lucky :) Wish you the best

And also Thak you for my sista of life..Yoyo (sist..jadwal kita tabrakan terus ya :< ), Putty who recently enggage (suit-suit..congratz ya Cung...) Mona (gimana kabar Brian, Crot? ) It's too bad we can not see each other this week. Soon okay (Cung gimana kalo di nikahanmu aja gimana? hehehe...) And for all of my friends which I can not mention one by one...Thank you...Thank you... Wish you all the best :)